Real connections, joyful breakthroughs, and a therapy approach as unique as your child.
Every child in New Jersey deserves a path to growth that feels natural, not forced. At Building Butterflies DIR, we bring DIR Floortime therapy to families across the Garden State, meeting your child exactly where they are, and helping them blossom from there. Whether your family is in Bergen County, Ocean County, or anywhere in between, we are here and ready to help.
From Montvale to Lakewood, we grow with Garden State families.
Building Butterflies DIR is proudly rooted in New Jersey, with our primary office located at 1 Paragon Dr, Suite 252, Montvale, NJ 07645, nestled in Bergen County, just minutes from the New York border. We also serve families in Lakewood, NJ, a vibrant community in Ocean County known for its close-knit neighborhoods and strong family values.
New Jersey is one of the most diverse states in the country, home to a rich mix of communities, cultures, and family backgrounds. That diversity shapes the way we work. No two children are the same, and no two therapy journeys look alike. Our DIR Floortime approach reflects this, thoughtfully personalized, always relationship-centered, and designed to fit the real life your family lives.
We currently serve families across Bergen, Essex, Morris, Ocean, Monmouth, Middlesex, and Hudson Counties, with in-home sessions making quality developmental therapy accessible no matter where you are in the state.
When families search for “DIR Floortime therapy near me in NJ” or “autism play therapy near me in NJ”, they are often looking for more than a provider. They want guidance, warmth, and a plan that respects their child’s individuality. Building Butterflies DIR offers that partnership throughout New Jersey.
Convenient services across New Jersey with flexible session options
Building Butterflies DIR serves families statewide. Our clinicians travel to homes and schools across:
Lakewood
Toms River
Hoboken
Edison
Hackensack
Newark
Monmouth County
Hudson County
Clinic-based sessions are available in designated New Jersey locations, with details provided during intake.
Families in North Jersey can access services easily from major routes such as the Garden State Parkway, Route 17, Route 4, and Interstate 80. In Central and Shore regions, we frequently serve families near Route 9, Route 18, and the New Jersey Turnpike.
We coordinate schedules that fit around school hours, work commitments, and family routines. Our intake team guides you through location availability, therapist matching, and insurance verification.
Our services are not one-size-fits-all, because your child certainly isn't.
At Building Butterflies DIR, we offer DIR Floortime therapy in New Jersey across three flexible settings, so families can access the support they need in the environment that works best for their child.
Some children thrive most in the comfort of their own space. In-home sessions bring our therapists directly to your family, allowing your child to engage in therapy where they feel safest and most themselves. This setting also gives our team a real-world view of your child's environment, an advantage that makes sessions richer and more meaningful.
School is where children spend much of their day, which makes it one of the most important places for growth. Our school-based support brings DIR Floortime principles into the classroom and social settings your child already navigates, helping build the communication and interaction skills they need to participate fully in school life.
Our clinic setting offers a structured, nurturing space designed specifically for therapeutic play and engagement. Equipped for a wide range of developmental activities, clinic sessions are ideal for children who benefit from a consistent, dedicated environment.
Through relationship-based autism therapy in New Jersey and broader developmental support, Building Butterflies DIR focuses on
Building the capacity to connect, share, and relate with others
Expanding both verbal and non-verbal expression in authentic ways
Supporting cognitive adaptability and curiosity
Helping children manage big feelings and sensory experiences with confidence
Strengthening the relationship at the heart of every child's development
Our ICDL-informed approach is grounded in the work of Dr. Stanley Greenspan and is recognized as one of the most research-supported, play-based therapy models available to families today. Every session is led by a child development specialist in New Jersey who brings clinical expertise alongside genuine warmth.
Reaching out is easy. Taking the first step is the bravest thing you'll do today.
We know that finding the right support for your child takes courage. Our team is here to answer your questions, walk you through the process, and make sure you feel confident before anything begins.
Building Butterflies DIR 📍 1 Paragon Dr, Suite 252, Montvale, NJ 07645 📞 (973) 899-1816 📧 info@buildingbutterflies.com 🌐 www.buildingbutterflies.com
Also serving: Lakewood, NJ, and families throughout Bergen, Essex, Morris, Ocean, Monmouth, Middlesex, and Hudson Counties.
Insurance Accepted: We proudly accept Horizon Blue Cross Blue Shield and several other major insurance carriers. Contact us to verify your specific plan.
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Experienced, compassionate, and genuinely invested in your child's story.
David Rotenberg — Owner and Developmental Therapist David founded Building Butterflies LLC with a clear vision: that every child deserves therapy rooted in connection, not compliance. With deep expertise in DIR Floortime and a background in developmental therapy, David leads a team that shares his commitment to joyful, relationship-first care. His approach is shaped by years of experience working with children with autism, sensory processing differences, and developmental delays across New Jersey.
Building Butterflies DIR is actively growing its New Jersey team. All therapists are trained in the DIR/Floortime model and selected for both their clinical skill and their heart for working with children and families.
Your child's potential is waiting. Let's meet it together.
Families across New Jersey are discovering that developmental therapy in New Jersey does not have to feel clinical, rigid, or disconnected. At Building Butterflies DIR, every session is a chance to build something real, a stronger bond, a new skill, a moment of joy that carries your child forward.
Whether you are just beginning to explore options or you have been searching for the right fit for a while, we are here to listen, guide, and support your family at every stage.
In-home, school-based, and clinic sessions are available statewide
Insurance accepted, including Horizon BCBS
Serving Bergen, Essex, Morris, Ocean, Monmouth, Middlesex, and Hudson Counties
Led by experienced, relationship-focused developmental therapists
📞 (973) 899-1816 📧 info@buildingbutterflies.com 📍 1 Paragon Dr, Suite 252, Montvale, NJ 07645
