DIR Therapy is a gentle, research-backed approach that helps children with autism and other developmental challenges grow in the areas that matter most: emotional connection, communication, critical thinking, and social engagement.
We follow the natural stages of emotional and cognitive development and identify where a child may need support. Think of development like a pyramid: each level builds on the one beneath it. If the foundation isn’t solid, the higher levels can’t hold steady. Our goal is to strengthen each layer - one step at a time - so the child has the support they need to grow, connect, and thrive.
The six core developmental levels we focus on include:
Regulation & Attention – staying calm, organized, and attentive
Engagement – building real emotional connections
Two-Way Communication – participating in back-and-forth interactions
Problem Solving – thinking flexibly and collaborating
Symbolic Thinking – pretend play and imaginative expression
Logical Thinking – making sense of cause and effect, sequencing, and higher-level reasoning
Every child experiences the world differently. Some are sensitive to sound, others crave constant movement. Some have trouble with motor planning or visual processing. We learn how each child’s mind and body work and tailor our approach to help them grow on their terms.
Learning happens in the context of human connection. Strong relationships with parents, teachers, and caregivers fuel a child’s growth. We help strengthen those bonds - not only through direct therapy, but by training parents and educators to carry over the work into everyday life.


Floortime is the hands-on, play-based part of the therapy. During sessions, we literally and figuratively get on the floor with the child entering their world, following their lead, and using emotionally meaningful moments to build new skills. It may look like play, but every activity is intentionally designed to work on key developmental goals.
Parents are a core part of the process. We don’t just work with the child, we teach caregivers how to continue the work at home, in the bath, at the park, or over dinner. Over time, this approach strengthens the brain’s capacity to engage, think, and connect and helps children carry their new skills into real-world settings.
ABA is a well-established therapy that focuses on behavior and uses reinforcement to guide change. DIR Floortime takes a different approach. It looks beneath the behavior to understand what a child may be feeling or needing. If a child is biting, for example, we ask why. Are they overwhelmed? Seeking sensory input?
DIR Floortime supports growth by building emotional connection, communication, and self-regulation. Both therapies are valid and can be effective. At Building Butterflies, we focus on DIR Floortime for families looking for a relationship-based and developmental model.


DIR/Floortime changes the how — not just the what. When children feel understood and supported, they begin to engage more, try more, and grow more. The therapy taps into their natural desire for connection and helps rewire their brain — building real, sustainable progress that goes beyond surface-level behaviors.
Dr. Stanley Greenspan, the founder of DIR Floortime Therapy, was a pioneer in child development. With deep compassion and insight, he reshaped the way we understand and support children with developmental challenges. In this video, Dr. Greenspan shares the heart behind DIR Floortime—focusing not just on behavior, but on building real human connection, emotional growth, and lifelong learning.
Rebecca is a certified DIR Floortime specialist with a Master’s degree in Special Education and over 18 years of experience working in both educational and clinical settings. A passionate advocate for the DIR model, she has dedicated her career to supporting children with developmental differences and their families.
Rebecca’s formal journey with DIR began in 2008 after witnessing its transformative impact on her students. In 2009, she began training with leading pioneers in the field, including Stanley Greenspan, Serena Wieder, and Jake Greenspan. She later completed her certification through Profectum Foundation and continued advanced mentorship with renowned DIR faculty such as Rosemary White, OTR/L; Sima Gerber, PhD, CCC-SLP; and Dianne Selinger, PhD.
Driven by a commitment to understanding the whole child, Rebecca has pursued extensive training across all domains of development, including occupational, physical, speech, and mental health. She continues to expand her expertise and has earned multiple advanced DIR certifications.
In 2014, Rebecca founded The Bright Star Center for Pediatric Therapy, where she brought her integrative, relationship-based approach to life. In addition to her clinical work, she serves as a trainer and consultant in both general education and special education settings. She leads workshops and hands-on training sessions for educators and therapists, and provides coaching to parents and teachers—helping them better understand each child’s unique profile and thoughtfully adapt environments and curricula to support growth.
Rebecca’s current passion project, Building Butterflies, reflects her vision of creating a comprehensive, high-quality system of care and education for families of children with developmental differences.