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Every child wants to connect. Some just need a different path to get there.

DIR Therapy is a gentle, research-backed approach that helps children with autism and other developmental challenges grow in the areas that matter most: emotional connection, communication, critical thinking, and social engagement.

What Does “DIR” Stand For?

D - Developmental
I - Individual Differences
R - Relationship-Based

So… What Is Floortime?

Floortime is the hands-on, play-based part of the therapy. During sessions, we literally and figuratively get on the floor with the child entering their world, following their lead, and using emotionally meaningful moments to build new skills. It may look like play, but every activity is intentionally designed to work on key developmental goals.

Parents are a core part of the process. We don’t just work with the child, we teach caregivers how to continue the work at home, in the bath, at the park, or over dinner. Over time, this approach strengthens the brain’s capacity to engage, think, and connect and helps children carry their new skills into real-world settings.

How Is DIR / Floortime Different From ABA?

ABA is a well-established therapy that focuses on behavior and uses reinforcement to guide change. DIR Floortime takes a different approach. It looks beneath the behavior to understand what a child may be feeling or needing. If a child is biting, for example, we ask why. Are they overwhelmed? Seeking sensory input?

DIR Floortime supports growth by building emotional connection, communication, and self-regulation. Both therapies are valid and can be effective. At Building Butterflies, we focus on DIR Floortime for families looking for a relationship-based and developmental model.

Want to know if DIR Floortime is the right fit for your child?

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Aspect
DIR/Floortime
ABA Therapy
Focus
Internal emotional and sensory experiences
External behaviors
Approach
Explores why a behavior is occurring
Uses reinforcement to increase or decrease behaviors
Response to Behavior
Seeks to understand the underlying cause
Tries to stop or redirect the behavior
View of Behavior
Behavior as a form of communication or unmet need
Behavior as something to modify or control
Goal
Long-term emotional and developmental growth
Short-term behavioral change
Example (biting)
Ask: Is the child overwhelmed? Seeking input? Then address it
Reinforce non-biting or discourage biting

Why DIR Works

DIR/Floortime changes the how — not just the what. When children feel understood and supported, they begin to engage more, try more, and grow more. The therapy taps into their natural desire for connection and helps rewire their brain — building real, sustainable progress that goes beyond surface-level behaviors.

The Heart of DIR Floortime

Dr. Stanley Greenspan, the founder of DIR Floortime Therapy, was a pioneer in child development. With deep compassion and insight, he reshaped the way we understand and support children with developmental challenges. In this video, Dr. Greenspan shares the heart behind DIR Floortime—focusing not just on behavior, but on building real human connection, emotional growth, and lifelong learning.